30 Day Yoga Challenge: Day 10

Today, I did the tenth day of the DO YOU YOGA 30 Day Challenge. It was called “Low Back & Hips Standing Poses.” This video was really fun and I am officially 1/3 of the way done with this challenge! My back pain is feeling a little better every day and today’s video really helped me to get some pops and cracks out. It also helped me get pretty energized before work.

For breakfast, Matt made a really yummy egg drop soup with some leftover vegetable dumplings (just two each) from our dinner last night. For lunch, I had the tomato mozzarella panini from Starbucks (420 calories). I also had a fruit cup on my break and some yogurt with granola and blueberries when I got home.

It was a strange day at work today. I was only scheduled from noon to 4:30, but we actually ended up closing the entire store at 4 due to a water filtration issue. Apparently, there was a fire at a nearby construction site and they had to flush the fire hydrants (or so we were told). Our water was coming in bright yellow. Totally crazy.

Right now, I’m just hanging out at home until I go to my monthly PFLAG (Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) meeting. Just in case anyone was wondering, I am a straight ally and my blog is absolutely a safe space. If anyone ever needs someone to talk to, please feel free to reach out.

30 Day Challange: Day 13

What Are You Excited About?

Right now, I’m excited about going to the New York City Pride Parade on June 26. I went to my first one six years ago and, five years ago, I started going with a group of college friends I met through Allies (that was our campus GSA [Gay Straight Alliance], except we couldn’t call it that because we went to a Catholic University).

The group always consists of my friend Candice and I, sometimes with the addition of our friends Bobby and Sam. I would love for everyone to be able to come this year! I was afraid I was going to miss Pride because I should have still been in Korea, but now that I’m not, I can’t wait to go!

We usually get into the City early and find a spot in the 20s on Broadway. We almost always take a little walk through Eataly and get something (read as gelato) to eat. It’s usually too hot to stay at the parade for its entirety, so when we can’t take the heat anymore we like to grab some lunch (and some margaritas) and explore the Village.

It’s a nice little tradition I really look forward to every year. Most of these friends live in different states and have different schedules, so it’s nice to take a day to see everyone and catch up.

Here are some pictures from last year’s Pride:

Also, if anyone would like to do this challenge with me, it can be found here.

Transgender Day of Remembrance

Those of you who know me know that I am an ally and supporter of the LGBTQ community. I have been for as long as I can remember. In college, I was an active member in our Allies group and every year, I attend the New York City Pride Parade with a core group of the friends I made there.

In Korea, awareness and acceptance are a little harder to come by for the LGBTQ community. When one of the expats in Ulsan, Dorian, suggested hosting a Transgender Day of Remembrance here in our city, I knew I had to be a part of it.


For those of you who don’t know, here is a little history about TDoR:

Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR) is recognized every year on November 20 as a way to memorialize those who have been killed because of transphobia and a lack of understanding about the transgender community.
In 1998, Gwendolyn Ann Smith, a trans woman, began the “Remember Our Dead” web project following the murder of Rita Hester, a trans woman of color.
In 1999, the first Transgender Day of Remembrance was held in San Francisco, California with a candlelight vigil and a reading of the names of those who had been lost.

A group of us began meeting via Skype in order to help bring this event to life. We spent several weeks arduously planning the following: speeches, spoken word, poetry, interviews, brochures, flyers, t-shirts, and even an art installation.

Oh, and one of the participants was even gracious enough to translate everything into Korean!

On Saturday, November 21st, at 8PM our event was hosted at Cima Bar. Most of us had been there since 7 to help set up. Folding brochures, hanging posters, setting up tea lights and tables. It was finally happening!

I was so happy to see such a large turnout. Everyone was kind and respectful of the space. There was laughter, and tears, and a range of emotions in between. After the poetry, spoken word, and videos, it was time for the reading of the names.

This was probably the most difficult part of the night. Several speakers began reading the names of the trans individuals who have been killed over the past 18 years, from all over the world. Most of them were younger than I am now. Behind the speakers, I helped cover the window in Post-it notes with all the names as they were being read. The Post-its were the colors of the trans flag.


A huge thanks to Dorian for their vision and for putting on a beautiful event. Additionally, thank you to everyone in the planning crew. I know I don’t know you all very well, but I am grateful to have been part of something so wonderful!